Looking to Find Friends in Derby?
Whether you've just moved to the area or you're simply keen to grow your social circle, join Mixing Out — a community with loads of local members who are up for getting out and enjoying life.
Your city, your plans
Become part of Mixing Out and discover the latest social events happening in Derby. You’ll meet welcoming, like-minded people who love making the most of what Derby has to offer.
And if you’ve got ideas of your own? Even better — create your own event and invite others along. This is your space to socialise your way.


Find friends in Derby who share your interests
Mixing Out is all about creating a welcoming space full of sociable, friendly people looking to connect and have fun. With every event, you’ll discover new experiences and great company.
High turnout, better events
Thanks to our dependable RSVP system, our events are full of people who actually show up and want to be there. Whether it’s a chilled coffee event or a lively night out, you can count on a great group of attendees.
Women-friendly, community-first
Mixing Out is not a dating site. Many of our female members are here purely to find friends in Derby. That’s why we’ve built in protections, including private messaging controls, to stop unsolicited messages and keep things respectful for everyone.
Safe, scam-free and bot-free
We take member safety seriously. Our moderators actively review accounts and activity to keep the network free of spam and bad behavior. And because our events are off-line, we have zero chatbots. None.


Testimonials from People in Derby
"I moved to Derby when I started university and decided to stay put after I finished studying. Almost six years later and most of my friends have either moved back to their home cities, or now find it difficult going out because of work and so forth. My social life disintegrated and I soon found myself stuck in a rut, staying home after work and trawling through old photographs on Facebook, wishing I could go back to happier times. I discovered Mixing Out and decided to give it a go. My first experience was quite daunting, there were quite a few people in attendance whom I'd never met before and I was so out of practice that I didn't know what to do. But as I walked in, a lady called Amy came over with her friend Melanie and introduced themselves. They made me feel very welcome, I ended up spending most of the evening with them and now they are really good friends.
Now we go to new events all the time, meet up with new groups of people and it seems as though my social life has never been better."
- Phillipa Carr
Popular Venues in Derby
The Flower Pot has everything you want from a music venue: quality acts, lively atmosphere and great beer, serving a wide selection of ales including those from Black Iris micro brewery onsite. All of this and an exceptional outside garden that's perfect for socialising with friends in a fantastic, vibrant setting.
Regular Events - As well as some very exciting live acts, there's also a number of regular beer festivals, outdoor barbecues and various cuisine-nights where you and a group of friends can savour tasty dishes from all over the world.
Address: King Street, Derby, DE1 3DZ Tel: 01332 204955Cube Café is located in Derby's stunning Cathedral Quarter and is the perfect place for a quiet coffee with friends, a lunchtime meet-up or an evening meal before a night on the town. Set in cosy surroundings, and with a chilled, relaxed atmosphere, making friends in Derby couldn't be easier.
Regular Events - Cube Cafe holds a number of events that are perfect for groups of new people meeting up and getting to know one another for the first time. As well as Games Night, where you can team up in a variety of classic, modern and online games, you can also join the Book Club; where you can sink your teeth into the latest best seller in a friendly setting over delicious food and drink.
Address: Chapel Street, Cathedral Quarter, Derby, DE13GU Tel: 01332 370911